Lady Gaga and the Online Eucharist Police

I used to be a third-grade teacher and a few times I was actually privileged to watch the instant when a child learned how to read.  Choppy, foreign sounds would clatter out of the child's mouth until suddenly something would click in his mind and heart and an actual word would effortlessly issue from his lips.  It was miraculous.  Every time it happened, I would be startled and the child would be delighted and amazed.  It was as if, after all that hard work, we both were bewildered that it had actually happened.

Most of you probably don't know that early on in my blogging efforts, there was a bit of controversy.  In one of my first blog posts, I wrote about how I began my journey back into the Catholic Church by attending Mass as an atheist, and I admitted that I received Communion in an unworthy state for almost a year.

Finally, it dawned on me in one wonderful moment that I should go to Confession.

I wrote about this to help illustrate the value of graduality in the spiritual life.  Not graduality of the law, but graduality in the comprehension of the law.  This is a reality in all of our lives.  We do not come to an understanding of God's law simply by reading the sounds of the black and white text.  It takes a whole lifetime for us to comprehend spiritual things in a way that goes beyond intellectual comprehension and really sinks deep into our hearts.

A perfect example of this is Jesus' command: "Love your enemies" (Mt 5:44).  How many of us find that one difficult?  How many of us can really say we understand that?  But there are moments in time that help us to move further along in understanding how the Divine behaves and how we can behave in union with Him.

You've likely heard that Lady Gaga posted something recently about going to Mass, and how she appreciated a line from the priest's homily: "The Eucharist is not a prize for the perfect but the food that God gives us."  Little did she probably know, but that priest was riffing off a passage from the apostolic exhortation Evangelii Gaudium, and this line of thought is originally from the early Church Fathers who often likened the Eucharist to a medicine for sinners.

I was thrilled when I saw Lady Gaga's post.  A fallen-away Catholic telling her millions of fans about the Eucharist.  It's like a dream come true for anyone who cares about evangelization.  (Not to mention, I was particularly excited because Lady Gaga is on my regular prayer list.) But my excitement was subdued when I clicked on the post and read comments like:

"Lady Gaga is not allowed back to receive the Eucharist until she repents of what she has done."

"I hope she went to confession first and repented."

Well, for all anyone knows, Gaga had indeed gone to confession, but since when did Christianity become more about preaching the rules than preaching the Gospel of mercy?  And since when did Christianity give us the ability to read souls and see into someone's past and future?

Christianity is meant to be a love affair with God and our fellow human beings.  To be sure, a person should be in a state of grace before receiving the Eucharist and certainly, it is loving to respectfully pass that pertinent information on to someone who you know might benefit from it.

But most of the comments on Lady Gaga's post assumed that 1) Lady Gaga received Communion, 2) she did not go to Confession first, and 3) she was not in a state of grace.  That's a lot of assumptions to make about anyone, but particularly someone wholly unknown to us, personally.

Most dismaying was being witness to the ungenerous mindset of "piling on," whereby Christians, seeing several hundred people charge blasphemy or grave sin, chose to join in rather than restrain that instinct and offer up a prayer instead.

Most dismaying was being witness to the ungenerous mindset of "piling on," whereby Christians, seeing several hundred people charge blasphemy or grave sin, chose to join in rather than restrain that instinct and offer up a prayer instead.

By now, many readers will have stopped reading in order to visit the combox, choose a line from the above paragraphs and tell me I am wrong, but if you have stuck with me this far let me show you one comment that managed to be edifying and instructive; it communicated both the importance of respect for the Blessed Sacrament as well as love for Lady Gaga:

"The Eucharist, a pearl of great value.  I can't live without it.  Confession followed by the Bread of Life is the highest most peaceful and liberating experience I have ever had.  Literally like fireworks in my soul.  What an awesome healing experience.  Thank you Lady Gaga.  I pray for you."

Now that is a beautiful and Christ-like comment; it respects the dignity of the human person as well as the rules.  That comment manages to be "both/and" instead of "either/or" while assuming nothing, nor passing judgement.

We are all learning how to read God's law, some better than others.  Sometimes people are unaware of the law.  Sometimes the words printed on the page will not be enough for a person to understand.  Sometimes we are all just sounding out the words, the syllables clattering to the ground and suddenly, in one beautiful moment, it all comes together.

I will freely admit that in many areas of my life, I am still just a "noisy gong and a clashing cymbal" (1 Cor 13:1).  I, like all of you, read the sounds of the words but they do not always come together in my mind and heart.  I hope others forgive me and understand that while I may not be able to read some words, they too are not able to read others.  With God's help, we teach one another.  With God's help, we don't make assumptions about another person's spiritual life or closeness with God.  With God's help, we challenge one another in a way that respects the dignity of every human being, made in the image and likeness of God.

With God's help, we are Christ to every single person on the planet, with no exceptions.

[Aleteia Editor's Note: Take the Daily Poll, Related to this Piece: While "admonishing" the sinner, do you fall into judgement?  When you do fall into judgement, how do you take being "admonished" for it?]